wash: either shiseido tsubaki line ($36) or organic lush 'squeky green' or 'godiva' solid shampoo ($10) and 'american cream' conditioner (not pictured, $30).
treat: chi keratin mist (for strengthening, $18), bumble & bumble quenching complex ($45)
style: amika curler ($175)
I don't normally curl my hair just because it takes time and I'm rather lazy, but when I do I highly recommend a SOLID tourmaline curler/straightener because it's the best quality stone that evenly distributes heat so that your hair is protected by damage as much as possible. Also always use a heat protectant, I just started using CHI's Iron Guard and it's not bad.
Good luck with your hairsss.